Some are bored. Some are burnt out. Some are doing fine on paper and still wondering what else is out there. What they share is that they’re not sure where they’re heading, and the natural answer is to start over: new job, new career, new city.
But the question underneath is rarely “which job?” It’s “what do I actually want?”
That’s what we work on. I won’t tell you what to do. I ask the questions nobody’s asked, and we listen, so you can hear yourself underneath all the “shoulds” and “supposed-tos”: who you are, what you’re good at, what you’ve outgrown, and what’s worth keeping.
Sometimes people discover they’re capable of far more than they thought. Sometimes they find the life they have is already pretty good, and a few tweaks change how it feels. And sometimes it really is time to go. Either way, you stop reacting and start choosing, in the real world, with rent to pay and a life to live.
When work feels wrong, it’s natural to look for the fix outside: a new job, a new city, a new start. That’s reasonable. Outside changes are visible, and they feel like progress.
But a fresh start is exciting right up until the old patterns turn up again, and they usually do. So we start with you. What do you want more of? What’s draining you? What have you been telling yourself you should do?
Often a few small experiments where you are show you more than a big leap could. Sometimes they show you it’s time to go. Either way, whether you stay, shift, or leave becomes a choice, not a reaction.
Typically, we meet weekly or fortnightly for 3 months over 6 sessions, online or in person in Amsterdam.
Between sessions you try small experiments that we craft together and reflect on a question or excersise that I offer.
By the end you’ll have a clear sense of what you want, a shortlist of directions worth testing, and a next step you’ve chosen.
