Do you have a difficult colleague or client you want to manage better? Do you want to move into a leadership role but are not being seen? Have you recently been promoted and need to up your game? Are you a little lost in your career and wondering what you want to do next?
We figure it all out. In the best way – with a deeper understanding of yourself and with ideas that work exactly for you. Not a prescribed tool or method, but a deep look into what’s behind your situation, and new ways to approach it going forward.
You will leave the coaching process with your own strategies. With your own clear and motivating direction. With a boost to your wellbeing. You will find out what you want, and need, to do. What is going on in your (sub)conscious that is driving your thoughts, emotions and behaviours.
>>Get clear on your career direction
>>Learn how to tweak your behaviour to support your goals
>>Build your leadership approach
>>Develop ways to face challenges with more ease
>>Improve your wellbeing, motivation and confidence
But you don’t have to be! That’s what we work on. I ask the questions nobody’s asked, and we listen, so you can hear yourself underneath all the “shoulds” and “supposed-tos”: who you are, what you’re good at, what you’ve outgrown, and what’s worth keeping.
Sometimes people discover they’re capable of far more than they thought. Sometimes they find the life they have is already pretty good, and a few tweaks change how it feels. And sometimes it really is time for something new.
In any case you stop reacting to external situations or old protective patterns and start getting what you want, in the real world, with rent to pay and a life to live.
Typically, we meet every week or every 2 weeks, for 3 to 6 sessions, online or in person in Amsterdam. Sessions last between 30 and 75minutes.
I will make a recomendation, and we agree on this together to make sure that it exactly matches your situation.
Between sessions you try small experiments that we craft together, build a reflective practice and/or complete an excersise that I offer.
By the end of the trajectory you’ll have a clear sense of what you want, a direction worth living, and a next step you’ve chosen.
“I have far more agency over my life than I thought.”
“It doesn’t feel hard now. I can do this”
“A safe space where the session flows naturally and meaningfully”
People don’t need more advice when they’re stuck. They need a moment to explore, to understand what they need and what’s holding them back. They need awareness and ideas that are made for them. Tools that are actully supportive rather than a generic help desk answer.
I help people hear themselves more clearly. I ask questions they haven’t considered before. I create space to think without judgement, to get underneath all the layers of “should” and “supposed to” and find out what’s happining for them. What I bring is a way of listening that most people don’t experience very often. Not listening to fix, or to advise, or to move you toward an answer I already have in mind. Listening to help you know yourself more deeply and take decisions that benifit your whole self.
The sessions are conversations. Honest ones. The kind where something shifts, not because you were told what to do, but because you finally realise what you can do.
